July 18th, 2008
There’s an insightful story in Newsweek by Anne Kennedy Rickover: Bringing Home Mom and Dad.
Rickover moved her aging parents close to her home and compares it to a pregnancy, with preparation, birth, growth and eventually leaving:
At the beginning of this “pregnancy,” just as at the beginning of all my pregnancies, I read. When I was […]
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July 17th, 2008
Psychology Today has a blog about only children.
As you are probably well aware from here, I’m an only child, whan to know more? On Being an Only Child, by me.
Anyway, they cover a topic that is near and dear to my cold, sinling-less little heart: aging parents having to rely on an only child.
During […]
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July 13th, 2008
Int eh New York Times, Jane Gross gives us an enlightening look at, What I Wish I Had Done Differently when caring for her aging mother.
She learned some things, but the common theme of them all is, like we talk about here is plan ahead so you don’t have to make decisions in haste. […]
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July 8th, 2008
In what I hope doesn’t become another entry for the “What Now?” files, my dad informed me that he has to have a colonoscopy.
Now, while it’s good practice for people of a certain age to get them at prescribed intervals, this came up rather suddenly.
It’s routine-ish, but still, so was my mother’s carotid […]
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June 30th, 2008
Financial elder abuse is a growing problem and it affects seniors in all socio-economic and cultural groups.
People take advantage of seniors who may be unaware of a problem, afraid of the abuser, ashamed of being “tricked”, confused or simply trusting of the abuser.
It can happen to anyone as Suebob found out. Her parents are […]
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June 24th, 2008
We’re on vacation at the beach with my dad and my mother-in law.
I felt like I hadn’t seen my husband this whole trip and I couldn’t figure out why.
Then it dawned on me that one of us has to be with the kids (swimming and at the beach) and the other one has to […]
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June 24th, 2008
Nordette is caregiver to her elderly parents.
Her elderly father, along with her mother who has dementia live with her, her adult daughter and teen age son.
Over at BlogHer, she tells us of the time a black snake nearly ruined her day:
My dad said, “And while we were out trying to see about that, the cat […]
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June 23rd, 2008
Lori, at the Seniors for Living blog needs advice about her fiercely independent mother in law who took a fall at the grocery store:
Yesterday evening I received a frantic phone call from one of her four sisters, who lives nearby. Hope had fallen in the grocery store two days prior, was badly hurt, and refuses […]
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June 22nd, 2008
We’re at the beach this week, and you may remember last year when I had a defining sandwich generation moment at the ocean.
Well, this year it’s double the fun since my 83 year old mother-in-law is here with us, too. She also has a broken foot which she refuses to stay off of and has […]
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June 20th, 2008
Nikki at the OC Register’s The Mom Blog is finding out what the term Sandwich Generation is about as her aging parents prepare to move close to her:
It was my mom’s stroke at my home during their Christmas visit - and her six-week recovery - that led my parents to the conclusion that they needed […]
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