May 31st, 2006
One of the complications of my mother being ill, and, of just my mother in general, is that she is a polite Southern Lady. This is all well and good, unless you are talking about topics such as, oh, say…”Can you breathe?”
It took me quite a while into her illness to figure out that she […]
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May 30th, 2006
Though I can’t stop saying, “The Trouble With Tribbles“, I ran across a site called “Troubled With“. At first, I thought it was kind of a negative name, but, I realized it provides help for people who are truly “troubled” about a matter. The site has a collection of articles, and, resources about a […]
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May 30th, 2006
I have an interesting (but, not insurmountable) situation coming up that is a good example of a sandwich generation dilemma.
My dad has to have minor surgery in a couple of weeks. However, with him, minor stuff isn’t always “minor” since he takes blood thinners. He has to arrive at the hospital at 5:30am, but, my […]
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May 28th, 2006
Just in case there are readers here who don’t know me already, I thought I’d update you on my mother.
If you are just joining in, my membership card to the sandwich generation was issued on June 18, 2003 when my mother (68, at the time) was diagnosed with Stage IV non-small cell lung cancer after […]
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May 26th, 2006
Here is an article that feels a little more balanced when describing the dilemmas experienced by those of us in the sandwich generation.
One of the greatest challenges for a son or daughter caring for a parent is realizing limitations. Trying to squeeze in family, caregiving, social outings, housekeeping and, sometimes, work forces people to the […]
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May 26th, 2006
Jenn has a touching post today over at Mommybloggers about how her own mother’s illness and death, and her response to it, has affected her children. Though I’m pretty sure I will be cited by the grammar police for ambiguous use of pronouns in the previous sentence, go over and read it. I’ll be here […]
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May 25th, 2006
I ran across this article about the work pressures faced by women of the sandwich generation who have jobs outside the home. Maybe I’m reading into it, but, even though it says work is putting this pressure on women, it seems like there’s an undertone (starting with the title) in the article that implies women […]
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May 25th, 2006
Welcome to my blog-warming party! Won’t you come in and have a seat? Snacks are over there, let me know when we run out of CheeseWhiz.
Glad you made it! What are you still doing up here? The action starts with the first entry, scroll down. I hope to see you around often.
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May 24th, 2006
It seems like the moment I turned 40, I turned into a middle-aged cliche. My mother was diagnosed with lung cancer right before then, and, I realized I had become the sterotypical person who is tired, overworked, frazzled at home, worried about everything. It seems like one minute I was happily involved in raising my […]
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May 24th, 2006
Word Spy has a summary of the evolution of the term “sandwich generation”. Some of the “related terms” are kind of interesting. I wonder if I’m in my “middlescence“?
Tags: middlescence, terminology
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